Many Indians worship and pray to God, in some form or other. Lot of people worship Lord Shiva. We should have patience and above all, have faith in God, so that the things may become normal and the path of success may become easier. Philosophically yes, life is full of thorns, but there are sufficient roses also. For our concerns, we should have spiritual connections and get blessed with special effects. We definitely need blessings and guidance of God, for resolving our problems in life. We should be close to God, the Almighty, through a Guru.
There are many problems in life, as a result of marriage, which is considered desirable in this world, but it can be considered as a gamble. It is a delicate relationship, with the necessity of confidence and trust between the two persons and the two families, with lot of give and take being involved from both sides. If both are like minded, it is likely to be a successful marriage. There are many cases of failed marriages also, for various reasons, for some of which we may even not be responsible. We must try to save the marriage and not allow it to be broken. This is possible by forgetting and forgiving, by delinking from and forgetting the past as a bad debt, considering present bad situation as the effect of past karmas, and starting life afresh all over again. These days many grown up children do not look after their parents in their old age, with finance and physical care. The parents continue to suffer a lot. It is very sad. People appear to have become very selfish. They forget that one day they will also become old and in a similar condition. Our life is precious. We have many responsibilities. None of us know our destiny and what is in store for us. Many times we might have faced the hardships in the past, for no fault of ours. But we should keep our balance of mind, since it is said that our thoughts affect our feelings. But thoughts are affected by several factors which are beyond our control. We should get adequate education, live our normal life, engaging in a service or business to keep ourselves sufficiently busy and also earning money for the entire family. But above all, we must get rid of old thoughts. With the learning from the past, we should think and hope for progress and better days in future.